How two priests in the Diocese of Sioux Falls bring life experience into joyful service of the Church.
Our lives are shaped by what we have lived—and by how we allow God to use it. That truth is especially evident in men who discern a later vocation to the priesthood. Rather than leaving their past at the door, they bring it to Christ, and their experiences become instruments of mercy, wisdom, and steady pastoral care.
Fr. Tom Hartman (BA ’14, MDiv ’17)
Fr. Tom Hartman, a priest of the Diocese of Sioux Falls, South Dakota, knows what it means to rebuild a life on faith. In his youth, his relationship with God was fractured. After high school, he married and became the father of two children. Years later, he endured a divorce and subsequently received an annulment.
In the midst of that painful time, Tom recalls hearing the Lord ask him, “Are you doing that well without me?” When he recognized the honest answer—no—he returned to the Church. With the guidance of his parish priest, he came to understand a hard but lasting lesson: suffering with God is difficult, but suffering without Him is misery.
After the divorce and annulment, Tom immersed himself in the life of faith. He dated off and on for ten years, but over time he began to see that dating was pulling him away from wholehearted service. As Fr. Tom explains, “This was my discovery of a priestly heart—that it wasn’t meant exclusively for one, but to give it over to Christ and His Church.” At 41, he entered Holy Apostles.
Looking back, Fr. Tom describes his time there as a gift of peace and clarity. He says, “I am Franciscan in spirit, and I loved the holy simplicity that came from Holy Apostles. It was my initial impression and my last description upon being ordained: Holy Apostles has a simple holiness to it.”
He believes he gained practical tools to answer many questions, while also learning something every priest eventually discovers: no seminary can fully prepare a man for everything a diocesan priest and pastor will face. Still, the formation helped him develop the habit of self-formation—a steady discipline of prayer, study, and growth that continues long after ordination.
Today, Fr. Tom serves as pastor of the Holy Family Pastorate in South Dakota, which includes St. Lawrence, Milbank; St. Mary, Clear Lake; St. Charles Borromeo, Big Stone City; St. Mary, Wilmot; and Annunciation, Revillo. Reflecting on his vocation, he says, “The vocation of priesthood is hard but beautiful. I think this is true when lived well in marriage as well. So, despite all the demands that go into running a parish/pastorate, this is where God wants me, and it brings me peace.”
Fr. Tom Hartman with his family
Fr. Dan Smith (MDiv ’10)
Fr. Dan Smith’s call to the priesthood began early. When he was eight years old, he told his mother that he thought he would someday be a priest. He was right—just not right away.
After college, Dan ran his own ranch and later worked as a banker. In 2005, at 35 years old, he entered the seminary. He is grateful for a place like Holy Apostles, and he credits its formation with shaping students in the full breadth of Catholic life. He points to the community itself: laity, ordained, and consecrated religious—both professors and students—people from every background who share one common desire: to grow closer to Jesus Christ.
He also highlights the distinctly Eucharistic rhythm of seminary life. Holy Apostles, he says, is Eucharistic-centered in teaching and practice, forming men through Holy Hours and the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass. As Fr. Dan puts it, “This formation, as well as the sound philosophical foundation, prepares a person to handle what they encounter outside the seminary—in parishes, chapels, and on street corners. It prepares you for life, for the world… all for the salvation of souls.”
Fr. Dan now serves as chaplain at Sanford Hospital in Sioux Falls, providing emotional and spiritual support to patients, families, and staff. Over the years, he has kept Holy Apostles close to his heart—and he has acted on that gratitude in a very practical way. He regularly sends gifts to seminarians, including coats, shoes, books, and other useful items.
He remembers receiving similar kindness as a student. While he was at Holy Apostles, the Director of Library Services, Professor Claire Adamo, ran a book fair where seminarians could purchase books at affordable prices. There were also donations of clothing, liturgical items, and suit coats—one of which Fr. Dan received and still owns.
That spirit of generosity left a lasting impression. Now, when he comes across items he believes will help others, he continues the same practice of giving he experienced as a seminarian. As he explains, “Holy Apostles Seminary has this charism of gift that began with Fr. Eusebe Menard, who gave the gift of Holy Apostles as a seminary for later vocations. So, when I come across things… I will place them in a box and mail them to Holy Apostles, further continuing this gift charism.”
Winter in South Dakota
Life and ministry in South Dakota come with a challenge familiar to anyone who has lived through a New England winter—and then some. Winters at our campus in Cromwell can be snowy, but on the plains they can be severe, isolating, and even dangerous. Fr. Dan, Fr. Tom, and their brother priests are to be commended for the perseverance it takes to serve faithfully through months of harsh weather.
As Fr. Dan notes with a smile, “The Laura Ingalls Wilder books do not lie. It can be dangerous in the rural areas where priests sometimes have to drive 40 miles to the next parish.” In bad weather, they often stay close and serve the immediate area rather than take unnecessary risks. But rural ministry still demands travel—sometimes long miles on winter nights, scanning the roadside for deer, navigating blizzard snowdrifts, and driving roads lit only by starlight.
In those conditions, preparation is part of pastoral care. A supply bag becomes essential: candles, candy bars, layered clothing, snow boots, and the liturgical supplies needed for the sacraments. And, of course, a well-maintained, dependable vehicle matters—Fr. Dan’s has just hit 500,000 miles—along with the prayers of parishioners for safe travel.
God Shapes His Shepherds
The paths to the priesthood are not all the same. Yet in each vocation—early or late—the Lord forms a shepherd for His people. In Fr. Tom and Fr. Dan, we see how God can take real-life experience—joys, losses, work, family life, endurance, and generosity—and shape it into steady, compassionate priestly ministry.
Please keep these priests, and all our priests, in your prayers—especially those who serve in rural communities and difficult conditions—so that, in every season, they may continue to bring Christ to His people.