Alex Smith joined Holy Apostles as a graduate admissions counselor in July 2023, but the college and seminary had an indirect impact on his life even prior to that time.
Alex was born and raised in Ringgold, Georgia, a city close to the northern border of the state, near Chattanooga, Tennessee. He grew up in a Southern Baptist church, with his family actively participating in the services: his father acted as choir director and played the drums, his grandmother played piano, his grandfather played the bass, and his great-grandfather was the pastor.
Alex’s great-grandfather was originally Catholic but did not follow his parents’ lead as far as practicing the faith. After serving in WWII, he met his future wife and embraced her Baptist faith, becoming a minister and a guiding force for his family and congregation.
When Alex was in middle school, this man who was the beloved preacher of his family and community died. Around that time, Alex and his parents’ attendance at services changed to occasional visits. After graduating from high school, Alex attempted to return to regular participation but again found himself falling away, not from God but from his church. He began to question what it meant to be Baptist.
Growing up, there were no available answers to the questions he asked about his faith. He began looking into other Protestant religions, including Methodists and Seventh Day Adventists, and didn’t find answers that were sufficient for him. A former teacher taught him about Jehovah’s Witnesses, but he declined when he better understood some of the beliefs, one of which was that they did not believe in the Trinity.
In 2020, during the onset of the pandemic, Alex met his future wife, Stephanie, a practicing Catholic. In the course of getting to know each other, they discussed the topic of religion, and Stephanie explained truthfully that she only saw herself marrying a Catholic. While both agreed that this could not be the reason for conversion, Alex made it clear that she was important enough for him to at least look into the faith. It was his soul in the balance, though, so he needed to make the decision based on what he believed was right.
Continuing his search for answers, this time in the Catholic faith, Alex took to the internet. He found “Catholic Answers,” a website that answers questions and allows you to read, listen, or watch content about Catholic topics. He also visited several YouTube channels: “The Counsel of Trent” with Trent Horn (MAPh, ’18), Matt Fradd (MATh, ’18) in “Pints with Aquinas,” and “Catholic Truth” with Bryan Mercier (MATh ’16). Only later, when working for Holy Apostles, did he discover that these YouTubers are alums of Holy Apostles.
The information, particularly the history behind the Catholic faith, interested him greatly. His enthusiasm was palpable when he explained that the answers and understanding found from these approved sources were the ones he had been looking for all along. The deciding factor for him was the Eucharist and his research of Eucharistic Miracles.
He enrolled in RCIA at Our Lady of Perpetual Help in Chattanooga, with Stephanie as his sponsor. His mother, Sherrie, attended the sessions with him out of curiosity and found herself liking what she learned, as did his father, Jody, who was originally skeptical. All three of them were initiated into the Catholic faith at the Easter Vigil service in 2022, with Stephanie as sponsor for all three.
In addition, Alex surprised Stephanie by proposing in the church after being confirmed at the Easter Vigil service. Word had spread of his intentions, and a lot more people than usual stayed after Mass to witness the event. They were married in Stephanie’s parish, St. Patrick’s Catholic Church in Mystic, Connecticut, on July 7, 2023, and now call Connecticut home.
After his move up north, Alex began working at Holy Apostles, interestingly, the same college attended by those who answered questions for him via their social media presence. He feels its positive impact, explaining, “Working at Holy Apostles has had a tremendous influence on my faith and provided a continued learning experience. The seminarians and religious sisters currently on campus come from as near as North America and as far away as Africa and Asia, which serves as a reminder of the vastness of the Catholic faith.” As for the answers for which Alex was searching, “I can proudly say I’m Catholic because I know what I believe and what the Catholic Church is and have learned to defend my faith. I have an identity in my faith, which I didn’t have before.”
Alex’s story represents the journey and the homecoming of the Catholic faith in his family, from his great-grandfather to him.